Sex Outside of Marriage

Secular humanism is a worldview based on atheism, naturalism, evolution, and ethical relativism. Secular humanism denies supernatural significance; therefore, thoughts, inclination, and actions are based only on natural desires and instincts. Ethical relativism is the belief that no absolute moral code exists, and therefore man must adjust his ethical standards in each situation according to his own judgment.

Jeremiah 17:9 and 10 – Who is central in your heart – “I am” or you?

You shall not commit adultery. Exodus 20:14; Deuteronomy 5:18

Adultery is one of the most frequently and severely condemned sins in the Bible.

Leviticus 20:10 – Under the old covenant, the penalty was death.

What is adultery?

Dictionary – Voluntary sexual intercourse between a married man and someone other than his wife or between a married woman and someone other than her husband.

Romans 7:2 and 3 – provides clarity about what adultery is.

Matthew 5:28

The severe consequences of adultery:

Proverbs 2:16-22 – None who get involved return again, nor reach the paths of life.

Proverbs 5:1-23; 6:24-35 – The consequences are devastating.

Hebrews 13:4 God will judge.

1 Corinthians 6:9-11 Adulterers will not inherit the Kingdom of God.

Avoiding Adultery

Proverbs 2:1-16

Matthew 5:27-30 – Do whatever is necessary to avoid adultery.

Do not place yourself in situations that may tempt you. Alcohol has been behind many adulterous acts. God talks about being jealous, and in the same manner, must a spouse be, within balance.

Reconciliation after Adultery

John 8:1-11 – Most agree that this section of Scripture is not in the text. If it were to be included, it may give the impression that Jesus had a frivolous attitude about adultery which indeed he did not. However, another view is that forgiveness is possible for a repentant soul. Many of us hope so!

Psalm 51:1-ff – God did indeed forgive David; however, he suffered the ramifications of his sinful acts the rest of his life.